No we aren’t having his baby just because, after years of trying I discovered I can’t have kids. We are talking and trying to figure something out because this is now the only way we can have what we’ve always wanted. I do love her and she does love me, life just dealt us ****** cards and I really want to make the best of the situation... but obviously there’s going to be a ton of work to do and a lifetime of uneasiness about the future...