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Originally Posted by divine1966
Is this junk even like a valuable stuff? Like what could a person own that takes so much stuff. Both I and my husband have hobbies that are taking a lot of space. Like a lot. Think of crafting type of hobbies/making stuff . But even that goes into containers and could be moved easily. We also own a lot of books but are donating most of them now because we are switching to digital books. They aren’t hard to pack either. What does he own that takes space?
Clothes? Shoes? It’s easy to pack and take in few trips. And I have a lot of clothes. Dishes? Those hard to pack but he doesn’t even cook
Is he a hoarder? I don’t even judge. It’s really hard for hoarders to stop. My dad is mild form a hoarder. My brother and I are ripping our hair out but there is nothing we can do. It’s not uncommon
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Well, he even has some of his baby toys in our attic space, so yes, perhaps he is a bit of a hoarder.
When we moved here, I had no idea he had so much stuff. He didn't inform me of how much he had stored at his ex wife's home.
It is far too much for one person to be carrying around with them from home to home. He needs an additional storage space.
You have to realize we're dealing with a very disordered and dysfunctional person. He is not organized, and he is not responsible. Sure, he has a job and a career, but otherwise he's dysfunctional.