i know what you mean since i feel like i am often that way myself. i often get annoyed at some behavior present in other people but then i seem to realize that i am or was at fault for that behavior as Well. i am not sure if i would call it a form of self-reflection on my part but i know that it has helped me a bit to take a step back and calm down. i do still get annoyed though so i am not sure. As for these people, i can't speak for them, but from what you wrote they may simply be oblivious to their own flaws. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @rdgrad15, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!