I would distance myself from her abusive behavior(verbal).
You can lead a horse to water.........but you can't make it drink.
She is in denial like you said. Only she can make up her mind.
I hope I did not make matters worse for you?
Give her an ultimatum. It is called tough love.
I don't really know...
Am so sorry that she and you are in this spot. You can walk away from her. Tell her that you would get together for coffees.
don't know.
We will support you what ever your decision is.
sorry trying to be helpful....don't know that I am.
bizi