I'm reading horror stories of abuse with narc men on my Facebook abuse groups. One thread is about being raped within a marriage by your abusive spouse.

I recall that my husband woke me up in the middle of the night to fool around on a few occasions - not my preference to be woken up at 2 AM! One time when he did this I did not reciprocate because I was so tired, so he very cruelly called me "one way sally".

It's things like this that I hold onto whenever I do think I am missing him and which snap me quickly back to reality.

What an a-hole.