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But I can see now that I/she wasn't really being strong. The existence of a sub-personality means we have some vital part of our own personality missing. In my case, I wasn't able to express anger. I wonder if something similar is happening with you?
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Purple,Violet,Blue that's really good and must have taken a lot of work for you to figure out. Yes, if a child is not allowed to express anger or frustration it can create some significant challenges that can last a lifetime. Often the quest for power is an effort to assure self that the hurt part will always be protected. It's a demand of submission otherwise a price will be paid.