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Old Jan 26, 2021, 12:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
That is definitely eerie!

The two people who ghosted me were not emotionally well.
On one side, I’m thinking that if they are having emotional problems maybe they are now overwhelmed by their situation and don’t have the energy to communicate. I tell you because when I’m low I try to stay away from people.

On another side, I think that if it’s supposed that online people feel more daring to be themselves, they, by disappearing, are making you a favour. You know where they are coming from and you won’t be wasting your time with them, anymore.

The key is to know which situation we are treating here.

I assure you that there are people who are so genuine online as off line so I wouldn’t embrace these bad experiences. I would take it into account for the future in order to consider who I can trust as a friend and take more time with them since the conditions are different to the contact you can have with them irl but out of that I wouldn’t do much difference. But, this is my personal view, only. I know there are people who make boundaries and clear separation between both worlds.
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Thanks for this!
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