Did I scare people away from my thread? I sincerely apologize if so. Like I wrote above, I got a bit frustrated. My apologies for getting frustrated and triggered.

A woman on another mental health forum told me something rather disturbing. She says her husband beat her in the beginning of their marriage, but she stuck it out and claims that things have improved yet also states that marriage is sometimes a battlefield and sometimes a flowerbed!

I certainly would not agree with that - love and relationships should never be a battlefield. That's what I had in my marriage - bad bad bad. Wrong wrong wrong. Unhealthy and toxic!

This woman must be brainwashed or something to believe such absurd things! I was pretty astounded by what she wrote.