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Jan 26, 2021, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope
A woman on another mental health forum told me something rather disturbing. She says her husband beat her in the beginning of their marriage, but she stuck it out and claims that things have improved yet also states that marriage is sometimes a battlefield and sometimes a flowerbed!
I certainly would not agree with that - love and relationships should never be a battlefield. That's what I had in my marriage - bad bad bad. Wrong wrong wrong. Unhealthy and toxic!
This woman must be brainwashed or something to believe such absurd things! I was pretty astounded by what she wrote.
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There is something called Stockholm syndrome. Yeah, it seems stupid by default, but some people actually live in it. Also, there are TONS OF WOMEN who love that emotional rollercoaster. The bad guy is the thing for them.
The most basic example? Me. I used to be mister nice guy (when I was a teen). Of course I was trying to approach girls and, well.. I didn't work at all. I got laughed at and I couldn't get one single lady. Now you know how I am and the table is turned 180 degrees. The thing about “antiheroes” in life and in films is that they’re always interesting. Sure, it’s toxic, but that’s how the world works. Some people lose themselves in this game when it goes too far and end up living with domestic abuse.
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