Most of the times, it’s a matter of them. Or even both. Call it chemistry. But, when something it’s generalised is when you have to ask you about yourself.
Believe me, it’s worthy. I can be very difficult in relationships, you can’t guess up to what point. Due to many factors, my insecurities, my own lack of emotional control in which I’m working on currently.

It’s always valuable to have the other’s perspective and be attentive to the patterns.

I can’t believe all your online experiences were a failure. ????