ARGH!!!!!!!! I just had the MOST frustrating, aggravating and TOXIC exchange with my ex. I was trying to push him to come to the apartment to move stuff out and he was being most difficult about it. He wouldn't just agree to come tonight, tomorrrow night, Fri night and Sunday because of his bad back. Then when I said, ok, tonight, Fri and Sat after work, he said we'll see - I am trying to get him to get out all of his crap before I start work on Feb 8th, and he's not working with me on it, he's working against me on it.

Then when I tell him I am sick of him and his crap, he tells me he is done too. That he also wants a divorce now, even though again yesterday he was pleading with me to give him another chance, telling me again how much he loves me. So he did a fast 180 in one day from love to hatred. So now he claims to hate me as well. WTF.

I'm thinking after Feb 8th when I start work if he doesn't have all his crap out by then, I will pay the landlord to change the locks and I will call 1--800-JUNK to get the rest out myself. I cannot keep dealing with him. This has been going on for two freaking months already to move out! I am sooooooo fed up with him!!!!!!