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Originally Posted by MisterPaul
I have this strange feeling that you’re trying to make your point by saying „you’re young and you’re stupid”. If that’s the case then you have to know that I thought about it many times and I actually tried to open up to people (many of my threads prove it). And, as of now, I am 100% sure it doesn’t work for me at all, so… I just do what works for me and act accordingly.
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If you're 100% sure that opening up to other human beings doesn't work for you, then you will with 100% certainty have a difficult and lonely life.
I say that without any pleasure at all.
Remember, a disorder is called a disorder because it is dysfunctional / unhealthy / has a morbid effect on the psyche.
Crucially, it can't be sustained long-term.
I'm saying this because you seem to believe you can choose to be furious forever, and nothing bad will happen; that it's a reasonable life choice.
Addicts are asked: Does this (my behaviour / way of thinking) have a negative impact on my life? It's extremely difficult to admit that it does! I was anorexic for years, and in denial, so I speak from experience. To us older hands, your posturing looks like denial, if you see what I mean.
Why would you want to spend your whole life - at best - angry and numb, or - at worst - crashing and burning?
