I have not actually done this yet, but I have considered divorcing my husband but still living under the same roof. It sounds crazy, but it might work in our case. He could work nights, I could work days, we could set up the spare bedroom with a lock, and there is a 3rd car garage with a seperate entrance. We could live together but never see each other, which might just be a good thing.

Kinda funny that I'm 'planning' this and that house isn't even built yet...

But I do want to keep things consistent for my daughter, and I don't want to strain ourselves financially with two mortgages.

I'm a walking hypocrit though. We are talking about having another child and building a house, at the same time that I am thinking about divorce and I'm not being a very good wife.