So Sorry that you have to put up with this. i may be wrong about this but from what you wrote your fiancé's behavior seems a bit controlling. Checking out your phone conversations and constantly dictating when and if you should see other people seems like a big no-no from me, although it's up to you to decide how much of this is a deal-breaker. In my opinion you weren't flirting at least based on your account although hiding things from him likely went a bit far, so if he is feeling jealous that is something he should work on himself, although you certainly can Help. Please be careful and kind to yourself. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @browneyedgirl20, your Family, your Friens, your Fiancé and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!