I think that you are in a vulnerable place in your life and can easily get involved with something that while seemingly can be attractive due to a lack in your life, can lead you astray.

You are looking for self improvement, you don't have a job or career right now and you are searching for something that provides a sense of fulfillment. What tends to happen when someone is like this is they begin to subconsciously search for a presence that provides for them. Looking for "something" that contributes to one's sense of value, purpose, meaning.

When vulnerable like this it can be easy to get over involved with another individual who seems to provide and not realize how that can create problems. I have noticed how people often in a tough spot end up getting involved with psychics and fortunetellers which has proven very profitable. I see many emails telling me all kinds of things hoping I will take the bait and invest in a so called special service or spritual guide of some kind meant just for me . One on one like what you describe is risky so it's important to be careful.

I do not think from what you share that your fiance is trying to control you. I do think that he is worried that your new interest with this other individual is concerning. And, if you really sit and think about it and put yourself in his shoes and he began spending more and more time with some other woman and began even doing it without you knowing, it would upset and concern you too.

When it comes to relationships, both individuals need room to grow as an individual. A partner simply can not do it all for the other partner. What would you miss if your partner were no longer in your life?