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Old Feb 20, 2005, 02:55 AM
vacantangel vacantangel is offline
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IG....you can be surrounded by people and still be alone. I know women who are married and are still alone.

Take this for what it is worth...(and I don't mean any offense) I'm trying to say this tactfully and supportively...but I'm not sure it is.

I (ME, personally, JUST ME) judge people's attractiveness by their insides... you look "normal" on the outside...but on the inside...you can be as unattractive as you think you are.

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I'd like to comment on this. Yes, you can be at a party and still be alone, you can be married and still feel alone. It's partially how the other person makes you feel. Do they ignore you or do they show you love and kindness?

You personally may judge people on their insides but that is not the norm in this world. Most people look at the exterior and if they don't like what they see, then they never get to meet what could've been a wonderful person. This happens all the time. Far more often than people walking up to someone who is not gorgeous and getting to know the *real* person. As far as myself is concerned, even though I don't like myself, I do think I have some good qualities. On the net, you get to meet the *real* person first, what's on the inside. Too bad IRL is not the same.