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Originally Posted by divine1966
This story is forever a complete puzzle for me. How can someone making 90k is asking his wife for money every month? Couldn’t pay for his wedding? Couldn’t buy engagement ring with his own money? And can’t afford to hire movers? Cant afford to travel? Doesn’t have a penny saved? It’s not like he raised kids or something. Him not being good with money or having bankruptcy just isn’t explaining it. It has to be drugs that eating his salary. And it can’t be just pot and alcohol, although those are expensive. It has to be something more substantial, at least occasional heavy drug/cocaine use. I can’t wrap my mind around it. I’d not give a penny to people who make 90k of 100k because I’d likely enable drug or other bad and dangerous habits.
That’s why you do taxes with tax accountant. You ask them which way is more advantageous and they will show you
Are lawyers milking you both for money, what the explanations for.not filing for divorce. This is so ridiculous
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I know - it doesn't add up. I do know he spends several hundred dollars each time he buys weed for himself. And as we already know, he likes to live large. And when I say large, he'll spend money meant for important things on fine dinners out at a steakhouse - he'll spend over $200 on a nice dinner with insurance money meant to fix the dent on his car, for example.
I really don't know if he was doing cocaine the whole time we were together. I think I would have noticed. There's only so long one can hide a habit like that. And coke addicts are always sniffling... and the white powder shows in their nose hairs. I know this.
It's very possible he went back to a former habit. I think he had more of a habit with cocaine before we got together than I even knew about.
My own lawyer tried to milk me for more money even though he hadn't even made a phone call yet on my behalf to my husband's lawyer. He had written one single email so far and left one message for $500! Then he tried to milk me for $400 per hour when he failed to follow up with the other lawyer regarding the car lease. I am pissed. So it's my own lawyer's fault that filing for divorce has been delayed this long.
That's what I get for hiring a cheap lawyer.