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Old Jan 30, 2021, 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted by AliceKate View Post
We had plans, but I didn't feel up to it because of my panic attacks and some work I need to hand in at the university. I'm sure we'll meet eventually.
He's not in a caring profession, but his ex wife had a depression.
I agree, him not sharing is not a great sign. He did say he is going to therapy because he is too much of a perfectionist, but that seems like half-sharing half-truths.

Eh, we'll see. Time will tell. For now, that was so lovely and really good for me. I guess listening to my problems may be a casual way for him to pass time. Suppose that's it.
I think maybe his listening to your problems might be a casual way for him to pass time too. Sharing half truths is usually a red flag although there are some legitimate reasons why some people do this when they do not know someone well. Being ''too much of a perfectionist'' is one of the ''common'' reasons that people consult a therapist (from my reading...) This guy confuses me a bit.
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