Wow. He asked you to pay his debt? Take bank loans?

What’s with bank loans. I never took bank loans in my life and I had some struggles in life and then some. Whenever I had pay cut or not enough income, I took a second job. And I never made the kind of money your husband makes.

When he had reduction of hours or wanted his debt paid he had to take a second job like the rest of decent human beings. Not ask women to take loans for him. Instead of playing video games and smoking pot he had to go work. I don’t get this. Please never support men financially anymore. This is crazy. Soon after meeting you, he asks for money. This is beyond red flag. It’s a red banner. Jeez.