Well I wouldn’t put such a strict criteria that he must make more, you’ll deny yourself some wonderful caring nurturing men who might not work in a corporate world.

I don’t think the point is how much they make. Both i and my husband are educated professionals and we make reasonable wages and we live well but we don’t make 100k each. it’s ok to earn less. It’s all the other things that weren’t ok about your husband

Your husband makes very good money yet most of his salary go to drugs, video games and eating out. That’s why he is broke. Not because he doesn’t make enough. He makes more than enough. I’d focus on men’s moral and human qualities.

Your husband relies on women to get him through even though he makes more than other men who rely on themselves and hassle to improve themselves and their life and don't depend on others

It’s really not about money as much as about their character