So they rescheduled for yesterday, and I went and had a really nice time as well as getting a good dye job for free out of it lol. Personally, I don't like it when people do nothing but talk about themselves; it makes them sound conceited and boring and stupid in my eyes, so I don't usually ask people about themselves. It makes no difference, they often do it whether I ask or not. I still don't know if it's the external items (traffic, finding a place, etc.)or really the internal (I don't think people will like me if they get to know me). It's definitely something to think about.