There is a difference between listening to one's head vs. one ego.

Could you consult with an impartial third party, counsellor, even for just a session or two to see where you are at? Sometimes when we are too emotionally involved in a situation, it is difficult to know what to do. Having an objective eye, without any agenda, could help.

Some people in this thread are telling you what to do based on *their* beliefs. They make no room for what *you* want. That is not only confusing but potentially causing more confusion for you.