I am currently divorcing a narcissist and it's been a complete nightmare. I cannot win with him no matter what. And he has to win no matter what. We have an ongoing argument that has gone on for 2 months. I blame him for the breakdown of our marriage, and so now he blames me. He cannot accept responsibility for all his broken promises, lies and bad behaviors that ruined our marriage. I am infuriated with him. In one week's time, he should have all his belongings moved out and then after that, I can go no contact. All we have left is the divorce process once he's all moved out. I am very much looking forward to gaining far greater peace and distance from him. It's hell and it's very toxic for me.