I told him I am not buying his version of what happened.

He had promised that he would let me know if there were a problem between us. He did not inform me that there was a problem at all - instead he love bombed me and showered me with love and affection after I called the police. So IF he WERE SO UPSET about my calling the police, one would think that he would have acted distant and angry with me, but he did not! I am NOT buying it. And IF he were so angry and hurt like he claims, why did he just not talk to me about it and bring it up as he promised he would? He's completely lying. He's leaning on the police as a way to make ME partially responsible for HIS decision to cheat.

NO - instead he chose to have a little affair with his coworker. And instead he claims "you have NO idea what you calling the police did to me".

So I told him he has broken many promises, he's lied and he's betrayed me.

He tried to be friends recently and even offered me half of his tax refund. I said NO. He's still trying to offer me his help in any way he can. He offered to pay for my cable bill this month. He offered half his refund, and he took my trash barrels to the curb yesterday. He had bought me fly tape for the fly problem in my apartment and put it up throughout my home. I did not ask him for help. NOT once.

So, when do I unfriend him on Facebook? I am only friends with him now to make sure he doesn't post anything nasty about me or about the divorce. At some point, I will need to unfriend him and disconnect - do I wait until the divorce is over? I am not ready to unfriend him just yet - but soon.