So Sorry that this happens. Yes, like the other wise and wonderful posters have said, everyone reacts differently and Griefing can be really hard so try not to take it too personally if someone appears irritated/angry. i think waiting until the other person brings that up or seems a bit more comfortable with it may be a good course of action although of course it most likely won't work with everyone. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @rdgrad15, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!