Hello, need to vent here.

My Dad has four parasitic relatives, three brothers (one deceased) and a sister with another parasitic son. They’ve been lazy since their youth, loves gambling, never had stable job, and bad with money management. Even worse, one of the brother and the nephew have criminal history. They are fully dependent on my Dad up until now and they are over 60 (except the nephew, he is almost 40).

My parents always berate them for their stupid deeds, nevertheless they keep giving them money. They have no effort to make these parasites better nor sever the ties with them. Now as I and my brother are working and my parents begin to retire, these parasites begin to come to us as well. I refuse to give my hard-earned money to these moneys*ckers. Yet, parents still “pity” them. If we refuse, parents always beg us for money… for them. I don’t mind giving my parents money IF it really for their own needs. I have no respect to these parasites. I don’t think they deserve any sympathy. They clearly treat us nothing but living-cash machine. They know my Dad is still hospitalized and our financial suffered greatly to pay these bills, and they still asking for more money.

I have no idea anymore how to deal with them. Pushing my parents to sever the ties does not work, since parents have no will to. I’m not sure either, if I am the wrong party here.