i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters. Do not give them money if all they're going to do is spend them in gambling. Unfortunately i am not sure if there's much you can do to convince your parents but try to be sure where your money is going when you lend it to them. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Turtle_Rider, your family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?