The entire profession is set up to induce this sort of dependence and then those people who set the game up, can't handle what they have done and blame clients.
The truth is those people don't know what they are doing - they may or may not be ill-intentioned -but therapy is not a real science and they play with fire but unfortunately, it is the client who suffers - not the offending therapist. I would suggest breaking out of the system altogether as it is simply there to keep you subservient.