Dear Melaz,

I am so sorry you are in this situation. It is really heartbreaking. I worry about your child too. Not being married or a parent, I lack knowledge, experience and insight about such things. But hopefully others here will see your post and respond with something helpful. Although you are limited now on the time you can spend with your child, you can still have a profound influence. I wish so much that I could be helpful to you but sadly I am at a loss. I do want to welcome you to these Forums and hope they will prove helpful to you.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen