Dear Vilatus,

What a heartbreaking situation.

Not having a legal background and not knowing the laws of your country, state, county and city, I do not think I can be helpful to you. Hopefully more knowledgeable and experienced people here will see your post and have really good advice for you. Do you think it would be helpful to contact an attorney about what legal options are available to you? The situation must be so stressful and distressing to you and your mother. My heart goes out to you.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen