He has been trying to get with her for about 5 years now and has gotten close before and never cared I existed. He has also been verbally and emotionally abusing her after he found out she was pregnant and even threatened her and the baby. He also has kids with his ex he doesn’t really care for either he’s just obsessed with my ex and wants her no matter what. She has been pushing him away more and more but he still reserves the rights of his unborn child unless we take him to court. He won’t agree to handle any of it civilly because he’s rather spite her if she won’t be with him.....😔