Please pray for my family. My son still has not moved into an apartment. I struggle with how much I should be helping him. I have been praying to have the wisdom to know when to help. There have been many times I tried to help and it just made everything much worse. He cannot come home because of a serious incident (there actually have been more than one but I cannot reverse the fallout of the last one) and because the dynamics between my husband, him and me are so dysfunctional that we make my son's condition worse.