Regardless of how much you are drinking, you don’t need his guidance in quitting. He isn’t substance abuse counselor. Plus he is a drug addict and not in recovery, so he is not the right person for this discussion. Telling someone they drink too much is pointless, you did not cause it and you cannot control people’s substances consumption. People quit or seek help when they are ready, not when they are told so, especially by an active addict. It doesn’t work this way. He just wants to place blame