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Originally Posted by buddha1too
Back when my ex-wife & I were trying to have kids, it seemed like sex became a chore rather than a pleasure. Pressure to perform must be very common. Everything worked out eventually in our case, & I'm sure the same will happen for you & your wife. Feeling that you'll "let her down" might be the bulk of the problem. I hope you can jettison that feeling & just relax. I know...easier said than done. Good luck, dude.
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Thanks for the words. I hope it works out. She doesn't understand my anxiety about it and I honestly can't explain it so. Just talking about her ovulation period and how much I have to do it causes me stress. Then when I explain she gets upset with me so it's a circle. It's so small but yet it feels so catastrophic.