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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I honestly don't understand our legal process either. But it's not a forced thing - As far as I recall, filing jointly is cheapest and also voluntary.
I would not put it past him to prove that he filed for divorce by showing papers to some new woman. He is that type of person to stoop that low. So for me, it's very important to get it right in the paperwork.
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Well yeah if he gets married new wife will see it. I am just failing to understand why his new woman even matters? I saw my husbands decree many times because we have it in a our file with important documents and we were tied up to her paying her spousal support etc. No one saw my decree because neither I nor my ex remember what happen to it. No one looks at those. The only thing matters is statement that you are divorced, needed for marrying second time but not actual decree.
I just don’t want you to waste energy on things that don’t matter. Those are not important things. But I get that this is how you want things to be.