i agree with the other wise and wonderful obviously wise posters. Unfortunately there's no way to truly know the reason why they didn't accept you. The best course of action may simply be to avoid telling that unless it is explicitly asked or relevant to what is actually discussed and necessary. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Aviza, your Family, your Friends, your Children and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!