I attended a funeral once.I usually observe a lot before I say something.It struck me odd that the widow((husband died)),seemed happy.I was almost feeling guilty at my analysis. I was there a couple of days and observed that the widow was not grieving. I was baffled.She literally was enjoying the attention of people,smiling and laughing and all that.Later I found out she was abused by her husband and she was actually relieved that finally it ended.A lot of visitors knew of it.I was glad that I actually did not say any thing to her like I am sorry for your loss or I know you wish him tobe alive....I just hugged her quietly. Sometimes ,in certain situations a loss is not grieved. It may not be a common thing.But happens.Just wanted to share this.