I am sorry to hear that. But you gave it fair amount of time in hopes for improvement. It’s good he quit drinking but two years without a job is excessive and totally unreasonable. What’s his rationale for not working? I get that job market is not stellar but there are jobs out there for those who want to work. But I guess it’s a separate issue. Emotionally unavailable spouse isn’t a picnic. Are you seeing a therapist? Is he seeing one?