Believe me, we have spent years (she's 24) trying to help her deal with the aftermath of bullying. She has been in therapy. She has been treated for depression. And I understand it may be something she copes with forever, but at what point is this being used as a reason to just quit everything? At some point, you must decide you're going to find coping skills and go forward with life. I'm always at a loss as to what my role can be at this stage of her life? I can't bail her out of every situation she creates. I can't financially support her every time she needs money. She'll never figure out how to do it on her own, but I feel SO guilty when I'm not just THERE to try to fix it.