I’m so glad you were able to help your husband, rechu. As for the rest of your situation, the law is an ***, as they say!
I’m not trying to man bash either, but the fact is a lot of men are raised to be (or end up) entitled, whether their parents realise, care about it or not. Certainly not all men; I personally know several who have jobs but still share housework/other responsibilities with their wife/partner when they’re at home. Like I said, not all men by any means, but still enough to be an issue.