I loved my 3rd husband he drug me down, i had to leave to save myself. He was a gambling addict, took all my credit card more. Had a history of embezzling money.

I let him in to my detriment. I believed his lies, but it drug me way down believing him. She's not going to let you drag her down. I shouldn't have but i did and 4 years later still recovering.

She's trusting herself her feeling won't change the good and the bad. Only hope you have is fix yourself, maybe she'll come around if your funancial situation is better.

I know my ex has remarried and is leaching off the next woman. I just hope she's stronger than i was.