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Old Feb 09, 2021, 02:48 AM
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Originally Posted by bpcyclist View Post
Hey, guys. Checking back in again. Been very busy with work and trying to deal with my anguish at the loss of this relationship. So painful. Cried for an hour tonight. Oh well, if people are not willing to consider sharing responsibility for a friendship’s problems, there really just is no shot at a solution. And that was my situation. The person’s world construct is that all our problems are my creation and they, themselves, are basically perfect. Sorta tough to get anywhere from there.

Anyhow, I am strong. I am moving forward to help suffering patients.

Will try to start checking in daily. It helps me a lot! Hugs!
Many hugs back at you, my friend! It made me smile this morning to see your post.

I'm sorry that your relationship didn't work out. It's sad when we believe there is great potential, but then comes disappointment. You are right that people must always see their part in relationship challenges. It's rare that only one person is 100% responsible for such issues.

You are a mighty swell gentleman to be advocated for and helping suffering patients. What a noble endeavor . Thanks for that!