My husband and I have not spoken in three days - that's the longest we've gone without talking in a long time. Today is day four.

I have determined that my lawyer really doesn't care much to help me - he is barely lifting a finger to do the work I hired him to do. And probably it's because I paid him a meagre flat rate of $500, but he's barely even working on this for me.

I spoke with him on the phone yesterday, and it seemed he was ready to step out at this point, although the divorce agreement is still NOT written to my satisfaction. So I sent him a follow up email, with all the changes that I require in the agreement, stating clearly that I want to see a revised agreement FIRST that I approve of, and then he can relinquish his duties.

I hired the wrong lawyer. I am not happy about this. He needs to at the very least DO the work I hired him to do! GEEZ!