i agree with both of you wise and wonderful posters. Some people may not be able to handle certain information too well so it may simply be best to stay careful with oversharing. i don't think it is something that makes you guilty though. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @rdgrad15 and @TunedOut, your Families, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!