To forget or for give.There is a long way before I give a thought to that.Right now I am processing the aftermath and the intense negative emotions in me.I do not have time to even think about forgiveness.The anger,resentment is slowly dissipating. It may take my lifetime to heal.Until then I cannot forget or forgive.We cannot force ourselves to forgive.It should just happen naturally in my opinion.Sometimes it doesn't happen for a reason.Hugs.