If your not ready to talk about an issue... then you aren't ready (period).
when it's time it's time, I just think a natural flow is better than spilling so much out at once you wont be able to cope, and then be set back even farther... no matter how much "information" is on the table.

I wouldn't know... I couldn't drink one or two, I'd dissappear for a few days, if I came back at all....