I was put on psych meds when I was 12....and over the years the meds just got more and more potent. I was on depakote for a long time and when I was on it I didn't have a period for 3 years. And now I'm unable to be able to even get pregnant (everyone in my family and family history are very fertile). So I know there's been damage done to my system.

I guess we need to decide which is better for our child in the long run and assume these meds will do harm to them and wonder if these things are worth it.