Wow, your T really dropped the ball there, Favorite Jeans.

It doesn't matter whether she understands from an intellectual standpoint (which it seems she was trying to do?) but what baffles me is that your pain was, and is, real. How could she not see that? That was the truth right there. And she didn't see it or validate it but chose to take it personally and made it about herself by getting defensive etc. She dropped the ball big time.

I can only imagine how painful that feels, especially with an ending in sight and wanting some resolution instead of leaving it as... unfinished and unresolved.