i agree at least in part with the other wise and wonderful posters. If you feel like what they did to you was inappropriate then i'd say it was inappropriate and you have every right to speak up. Can i ask you how is the relationship with your friends apart from these incidents? Do you usually get along fine with them or does it seem to happen fairly often? Just something to consider. So Sorry this is happening. Please feel free to post. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @BluePineapple, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!