I'm not sure if this will help Scarlet, but I am trying to help so I hope you take it in that spirit.


T's are human. They can't see into the future. L didn't know that you would be vacating the spot for only one week. You guys had been talking for months about reducing so she probably thought you would be down that slot for a while. She had no way of knowing that your H would get a job and you would be able to resume your spot after just one week. Had L known that she wouldn't have given the spot away.

L has multiple clients all with needs and she's trying to fill them. Or help the clients fill them themselves rather. It isn't that you aren't important to her because you are. It's just that you aren't her only client. As much as we wish it weren't so, T's have multiple clients, but also they have the ability to care for multiple clients. It's like having pets. You don't stop loving one just because you get a new one. You love them both. And your love just grows and expands. That is how it is for T's.


I know you are hurting. This is why it is very important to go to the session and talk to T about it. You can do this. And we are all here for you. HUGS Kit